"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Weed just gave me an awesome epiphany about myself (yes serious)

Shivastorm_88

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Yes I'm actually serious, smoking makes me do crazy introspection and I realized the main source of one of my main problem (not my inner-self problems, those I'm working on): The problem I have with approaching girls

Just a little background info so you guys can know where I'm at. I have a hard time approaching any girl that I find hot (ok I think that's enough background).

Here's the thing: I see approaching girl as the end, not as the mean. Or if you prefer, I see it as the effect, when it should be the cause. Approaching girls, getting a girl, getting laid, anything related to girl should never be considered as the end. It should simply be one of the many means that you take toward self-improvement. The end should always be in something that you can control (your own success, not just with girls, but in life), not something that you lack control of.

So if you're like me, too scared to approach because too scared of getting rejected, don't see banging that one chick out of a million out there like the ultimate goal of a life-time. See it instead as the mean to your own entertainment. Approach her, get rejected (if you do) and laugh it off, and realize that it has now became a mean to what should really be the end (self-actualization).

So yeah, weed is cool
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dante420

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All bud usually gives me good introspection and thoughts but it takes next-level bud for me to get epiphany status thoughts

Support the legalization movement, it's building strong
 

Ridingthelightning

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Oh man I got the munchies.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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