"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Weed just gave me an awesome epiphany about myself (yes serious)

Shivastorm_88

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Yes I'm actually serious, smoking makes me do crazy introspection and I realized the main source of one of my main problem (not my inner-self problems, those I'm working on): The problem I have with approaching girls

Just a little background info so you guys can know where I'm at. I have a hard time approaching any girl that I find hot (ok I think that's enough background).

Here's the thing: I see approaching girl as the end, not as the mean. Or if you prefer, I see it as the effect, when it should be the cause. Approaching girls, getting a girl, getting laid, anything related to girl should never be considered as the end. It should simply be one of the many means that you take toward self-improvement. The end should always be in something that you can control (your own success, not just with girls, but in life), not something that you lack control of.

So if you're like me, too scared to approach because too scared of getting rejected, don't see banging that one chick out of a million out there like the ultimate goal of a life-time. See it instead as the mean to your own entertainment. Approach her, get rejected (if you do) and laugh it off, and realize that it has now became a mean to what should really be the end (self-actualization).

So yeah, weed is cool
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dante420

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All bud usually gives me good introspection and thoughts but it takes next-level bud for me to get epiphany status thoughts

Support the legalization movement, it's building strong
 

Ridingthelightning

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Oh man I got the munchies.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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