Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Weed just gave me an awesome epiphany about myself (yes serious)

Shivastorm_88

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Yes I'm actually serious, smoking makes me do crazy introspection and I realized the main source of one of my main problem (not my inner-self problems, those I'm working on): The problem I have with approaching girls

Just a little background info so you guys can know where I'm at. I have a hard time approaching any girl that I find hot (ok I think that's enough background).

Here's the thing: I see approaching girl as the end, not as the mean. Or if you prefer, I see it as the effect, when it should be the cause. Approaching girls, getting a girl, getting laid, anything related to girl should never be considered as the end. It should simply be one of the many means that you take toward self-improvement. The end should always be in something that you can control (your own success, not just with girls, but in life), not something that you lack control of.

So if you're like me, too scared to approach because too scared of getting rejected, don't see banging that one chick out of a million out there like the ultimate goal of a life-time. See it instead as the mean to your own entertainment. Approach her, get rejected (if you do) and laugh it off, and realize that it has now became a mean to what should really be the end (self-actualization).

So yeah, weed is cool
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dante420

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All bud usually gives me good introspection and thoughts but it takes next-level bud for me to get epiphany status thoughts

Support the legalization movement, it's building strong
 

Ridingthelightning

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Oh man I got the munchies.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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