"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Wearing nice clothes

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Is one of the things men can do to improve their looks as most of us agree!

But does that mean to wear suit and a tie all the time?! Dress shirts? Slim shirts and jeans? etc.

What is your opinion on this to improve yourself and the way you present yourself?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No. There is occasion for everything, but in this day and age it means mostly wearing brand name clothes. It improves your SMV. Because girl is going to take a look at you, and judge your value before deciding whether to say yes to you by not giving you hard time or say no to you by giving you her number and not going out with you. It's either you're good for her or she can do better, or who she already has is better than you. That's what a no means.

There are several things you can do with that to improve your SMV, looking the best you can, being in shape, having good haircut, smelling good, wearing brand name clothes that fit you, having your financial situation in check.

Todd V done a good video about this one.

 
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Is one of the things men can do to improve their looks as most of us agree!

But does that mean to wear suit and a tie all the time?! Dress shirts? Slim shirts and jeans? etc.

What is your opinion on this to improve yourself and the way you present yourself?
Overrated. Social dude in tshirt and sneakers kills boring dressed-up guy every day of the week.
 
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No. There is occasion for everything, but in this day and age it means mostly wearing brand name clothes. It improves your SMV. Because girl is going to take a look at you, and judge your value before deciding whether to say yes to you by not giving you hard time or say no to you by giving you her number and not going out with you. It's either you're good for her or she can do better, or who she already has is better than you. That's what a no means.

There are several things you can do with that to improve your SMV, looking the best you can, being in shape, having good haircut, smelling good, wearing brand name clothes that fit you, having your financial situation in check.

Todd V done a good video about this one.

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Overrated. Social dude in tshirt and sneakers kills boring dressed-up guy every day of the week.
Now you using two black an white ideas. There is plentynof t shirt an sneakers guys who are wack. And lots of suit an tye dudes that are slick af. And vice versa. It all comes down to the individual.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Now you using two black an white ideas. There is plentynof t shirt an sneakers guys who are wack. And lots of suit an tye dudes that are slick af. And vice versa. It all comes down to the individual.
Key word was boring.
 

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You don't wear t-shirt to a date no matter how good it looks. Polo shirt at least. You dress to impress.
Lol ok dude. When i take stacy from campus for pizza an then sex im sure it will be determined by my lack of a polo shirt lmfaooo. Dude ill show up in a muther fukking tank top fresh out of the gym on swole and take a chick out. U think an alpha gives a fuk? Get real dude.
 

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I like to dress up. I do it because I enjoy it and like the way it looks.

Does it make any difference to women? Not really IME. Maybe 1 out of 40 appreciates it. But I stopped worrying about that. I dress up for me.

If you wear nice clothes, women that ALREADY find you attractive will appreciate it. But I wouldn’t bank on necessarily attracting MORE women with your upgraded clothing alone, unless your existing style is REALLY bad.
 
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