The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Overrated. Social dude in tshirt and sneakers kills boring dressed-up guy every day of the week.
You say something?
Now you using two black an white ideas. There is plentynof t shirt an sneakers guys who are wack. And lots of suit an tye dudes that are slick af. And vice versa. It all comes down to the individual.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Key word was boring.
You don't wear t-shirt to a date no matter how good it looks. Polo shirt at least. You dress to impress.
Lol ok dude. When i take stacy from campus for pizza an then sex im sure it will be determined by my lack of a polo shirt lmfaooo. Dude ill show up in a muther fukking tank top fresh out of the gym on swole and take a chick out. U think an alpha gives a fuk? Get real dude.