Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Overrated. Social dude in tshirt and sneakers kills boring dressed-up guy every day of the week.
You say something?
Now you using two black an white ideas. There is plentynof t shirt an sneakers guys who are wack. And lots of suit an tye dudes that are slick af. And vice versa. It all comes down to the individual.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Key word was boring.
You don't wear t-shirt to a date no matter how good it looks. Polo shirt at least. You dress to impress.
Lol ok dude. When i take stacy from campus for pizza an then sex im sure it will be determined by my lack of a polo shirt lmfaooo. Dude ill show up in a muther fukking tank top fresh out of the gym on swole and take a chick out. U think an alpha gives a fuk? Get real dude.