"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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CapedCrusader08

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Why am I posting this? I have questions. After constantly reading through the forums,instead of getting up off my ass, I have questions about myself and the world in general. The idea is to seemingly not let women affect you,i.e she asks you to do something,you always do it, automatically "falling in love", or,in my case, going through such a dry spell,anything looks good. Really,it's gotten to the point where I will **** the first thing that says yes.

So,it has made me realize the social dynamics of all of this. Why some guys,i.e jocks,actors,any one percieved as "higher value", an idea I really hate to tell you the truth, have all the power,the women like it, and it is up to them to know how to handle it, am I right in this discussion? This is why I have felt the way I felt for so long. This is why I have been angry for so long,angry at people who haven't even done anything to me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Watch the blueprint De-coded by Tyler. Really you can learn alot from it. Oh and you are posting this for attention. You should get out more.
 
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No. I post on here to talk and debate. I see it as a place where I can come and talk about things maybe no one else is. Well, I might be going out tonight if plans go through and the weather lets up.
 
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Why dont you at least TRY to do something instead of posting meaningless, mundane questions?
 
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Why don't I? Good question. I think it is massive,massive insecurities. And this sense of hopelessness while everyone else has they're **** together and is doing better in life than me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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CapedCrusader08 said:
Why don't I? Good question. I think it is massive,massive insecurities. And this sense of hopelessness while everyone else has they're **** together and is doing better in life than me.
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You just answered your own question. Massive insecurities could be the primary difference between you and them. Who knows? It could be that all of those awesome people you aspire to be are naturally gifted and you are not. We will never know the answer to everything. At some point you are going to have to decide to stop being insecure/shy/powerless/invisible because you want to change who you are. Tonight is a good night to do that.
 
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stop being a pvssy and go out tonight. It's NYE, may try getting drunk to get out of your head. you are in your head. YOU ARE NOT SPECIAL IMPORTANT OR BETTER THAN ANYONE so get over yourself and just go have fun like everyone else. Enjoy the moment you douchebag.
 
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