"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CapedCrusader08

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Why am I posting this? I have questions. After constantly reading through the forums,instead of getting up off my ass, I have questions about myself and the world in general. The idea is to seemingly not let women affect you,i.e she asks you to do something,you always do it, automatically "falling in love", or,in my case, going through such a dry spell,anything looks good. Really,it's gotten to the point where I will **** the first thing that says yes.

So,it has made me realize the social dynamics of all of this. Why some guys,i.e jocks,actors,any one percieved as "higher value", an idea I really hate to tell you the truth, have all the power,the women like it, and it is up to them to know how to handle it, am I right in this discussion? This is why I have felt the way I felt for so long. This is why I have been angry for so long,angry at people who haven't even done anything to me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Watch the blueprint De-coded by Tyler. Really you can learn alot from it. Oh and you are posting this for attention. You should get out more.
 
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No. I post on here to talk and debate. I see it as a place where I can come and talk about things maybe no one else is. Well, I might be going out tonight if plans go through and the weather lets up.
 
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Why dont you at least TRY to do something instead of posting meaningless, mundane questions?
 
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Why don't I? Good question. I think it is massive,massive insecurities. And this sense of hopelessness while everyone else has they're **** together and is doing better in life than me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CapedCrusader08 said:
Why don't I? Good question. I think it is massive,massive insecurities. And this sense of hopelessness while everyone else has they're **** together and is doing better in life than me.
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You just answered your own question. Massive insecurities could be the primary difference between you and them. Who knows? It could be that all of those awesome people you aspire to be are naturally gifted and you are not. We will never know the answer to everything. At some point you are going to have to decide to stop being insecure/shy/powerless/invisible because you want to change who you are. Tonight is a good night to do that.
 
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stop being a pvssy and go out tonight. It's NYE, may try getting drunk to get out of your head. you are in your head. YOU ARE NOT SPECIAL IMPORTANT OR BETTER THAN ANYONE so get over yourself and just go have fun like everyone else. Enjoy the moment you douchebag.
 
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