Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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weakness vs strength/power

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Why am I posting this? I have questions. After constantly reading through the forums,instead of getting up off my ass, I have questions about myself and the world in general. The idea is to seemingly not let women affect you,i.e she asks you to do something,you always do it, automatically "falling in love", or,in my case, going through such a dry spell,anything looks good. Really,it's gotten to the point where I will **** the first thing that says yes.

So,it has made me realize the social dynamics of all of this. Why some guys,i.e jocks,actors,any one percieved as "higher value", an idea I really hate to tell you the truth, have all the power,the women like it, and it is up to them to know how to handle it, am I right in this discussion? This is why I have felt the way I felt for so long. This is why I have been angry for so long,angry at people who haven't even done anything to me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dedication

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Watch the blueprint De-coded by Tyler. Really you can learn alot from it. Oh and you are posting this for attention. You should get out more.
 
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No. I post on here to talk and debate. I see it as a place where I can come and talk about things maybe no one else is. Well, I might be going out tonight if plans go through and the weather lets up.
 

oakraiderz2

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Why dont you at least TRY to do something instead of posting meaningless, mundane questions?
 
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Why don't I? Good question. I think it is massive,massive insecurities. And this sense of hopelessness while everyone else has they're **** together and is doing better in life than me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Duffdog

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CapedCrusader08 said:
Why don't I? Good question. I think it is massive,massive insecurities. And this sense of hopelessness while everyone else has they're **** together and is doing better in life than me.
You just answered your own question. Massive insecurities could be the primary difference between you and them. Who knows? It could be that all of those awesome people you aspire to be are naturally gifted and you are not. We will never know the answer to everything. At some point you are going to have to decide to stop being insecure/shy/powerless/invisible because you want to change who you are. Tonight is a good night to do that.
 

Warrior74

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stop being a pvssy and go out tonight. It's NYE, may try getting drunk to get out of your head. you are in your head. YOU ARE NOT SPECIAL IMPORTANT OR BETTER THAN ANYONE so get over yourself and just go have fun like everyone else. Enjoy the moment you douchebag.
 
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