"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CapedCrusader08

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Why am I posting this? I have questions. After constantly reading through the forums,instead of getting up off my ass, I have questions about myself and the world in general. The idea is to seemingly not let women affect you,i.e she asks you to do something,you always do it, automatically "falling in love", or,in my case, going through such a dry spell,anything looks good. Really,it's gotten to the point where I will **** the first thing that says yes.

So,it has made me realize the social dynamics of all of this. Why some guys,i.e jocks,actors,any one percieved as "higher value", an idea I really hate to tell you the truth, have all the power,the women like it, and it is up to them to know how to handle it, am I right in this discussion? This is why I have felt the way I felt for so long. This is why I have been angry for so long,angry at people who haven't even done anything to me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Watch the blueprint De-coded by Tyler. Really you can learn alot from it. Oh and you are posting this for attention. You should get out more.
 
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No. I post on here to talk and debate. I see it as a place where I can come and talk about things maybe no one else is. Well, I might be going out tonight if plans go through and the weather lets up.
 
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Why dont you at least TRY to do something instead of posting meaningless, mundane questions?
 
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Why don't I? Good question. I think it is massive,massive insecurities. And this sense of hopelessness while everyone else has they're **** together and is doing better in life than me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CapedCrusader08 said:
Why don't I? Good question. I think it is massive,massive insecurities. And this sense of hopelessness while everyone else has they're **** together and is doing better in life than me.
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You just answered your own question. Massive insecurities could be the primary difference between you and them. Who knows? It could be that all of those awesome people you aspire to be are naturally gifted and you are not. We will never know the answer to everything. At some point you are going to have to decide to stop being insecure/shy/powerless/invisible because you want to change who you are. Tonight is a good night to do that.
 
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stop being a pvssy and go out tonight. It's NYE, may try getting drunk to get out of your head. you are in your head. YOU ARE NOT SPECIAL IMPORTANT OR BETTER THAN ANYONE so get over yourself and just go have fun like everyone else. Enjoy the moment you douchebag.
 
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