"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Weak back/slouching. Tips needed

Cash

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Years of too much sitting (slouching) and little activity have left my back weak. Looking in the mirror, my spine also seems slightly curved, like an old mans.

What are some good exercises to correct this?

Peace
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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stronglifts

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Deadlifts. Focus on keeping the shoulders back & down during the whole lift.
Bent-over barbell rows. Focus on retracting the shoulders blades, trying to touch them.
Check your posture: when sitting, walking around,... chest forward, shoulders back & down.
 

mrRuckus

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Argh i just finished reading a dave tate article that kept saying upper back rounded and shoulders forward.
 

stronglifts

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Axcell

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Try doing some push ups, and do stretches everyday. They really help your posture, pilates is a great idea as well, although, it is slightly more time consuming.
 

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Do your Rowing movements at least twice a week.
Focus on the rear Delts, and the Rhomboids. Work on Lat Pull downs too.
 

DoubleDown

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I do hyperextensions and alot of rear delt work to correct my posture. This will pull your shoulders back. I try to do 2 rear delt exercises for every front delt exercise.
 
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