"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Weak back/slouching. Tips needed

Cash

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Years of too much sitting (slouching) and little activity have left my back weak. Looking in the mirror, my spine also seems slightly curved, like an old mans.

What are some good exercises to correct this?

Peace
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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stronglifts

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Deadlifts. Focus on keeping the shoulders back & down during the whole lift.
Bent-over barbell rows. Focus on retracting the shoulders blades, trying to touch them.
Check your posture: when sitting, walking around,... chest forward, shoulders back & down.
 

mrRuckus

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Argh i just finished reading a dave tate article that kept saying upper back rounded and shoulders forward.
 

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Axcell

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Try doing some push ups, and do stretches everyday. They really help your posture, pilates is a great idea as well, although, it is slightly more time consuming.
 

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Do your Rowing movements at least twice a week.
Focus on the rear Delts, and the Rhomboids. Work on Lat Pull downs too.
 

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I do hyperextensions and alot of rear delt work to correct my posture. This will pull your shoulders back. I try to do 2 rear delt exercises for every front delt exercise.
 
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