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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
We neglect the importance of sex
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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It shouldn't have an impact. Porn, masturbation I think is a different wiring altogether than having sex. You may simply need to take Viagara, Max-Pro, or some other supplement and deal with a very patient girl with lots of foreplay. This is my experience within a marriage. My ex-wife encouraged me to look at porn because I was not getting any erections with her and the fact that I was limp most of the time with her without supplements added friction to an already doomed marriage. When you feel your SO has a rushed or impatient feeling it also kills the mood.
When your ex-wife encourages you to look at porn, when you are married, because you are bad in bed, then that's very bad. Divorce is already in the air. I had to check my testosterone level by a doctor. The doctor said my testosterone was normal, but it was low on "free" testosterone, (implying it was all clumped up somewhere?) I found herbal supplements to be the most helpful. Hopefully the next wife will be more patient and forgiving in bed.
marmel75
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Yup, I know that feeling
marmel75
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It will give you one hellified cvm blast for her that is for sure...when I don't have sex for more than a few days, and I have no other releases, that first blast is pretty amazing usually, hahaha