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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
We neglect the importance of sex
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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It shouldn't have an impact. Porn, masturbation I think is a different wiring altogether than having sex. You may simply need to take Viagara, Max-Pro, or some other supplement and deal with a very patient girl with lots of foreplay. This is my experience within a marriage. My ex-wife encouraged me to look at porn because I was not getting any erections with her and the fact that I was limp most of the time with her without supplements added friction to an already doomed marriage. When you feel your SO has a rushed or impatient feeling it also kills the mood.
When your ex-wife encourages you to look at porn, when you are married, because you are bad in bed, then that's very bad. Divorce is already in the air. I had to check my testosterone level by a doctor. The doctor said my testosterone was normal, but it was low on "free" testosterone, (implying it was all clumped up somewhere?) I found herbal supplements to be the most helpful. Hopefully the next wife will be more patient and forgiving in bed.
marmel75
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Yup, I know that feeling
marmel75
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It will give you one hellified cvm blast for her that is for sure...when I don't have sex for more than a few days, and I have no other releases, that first blast is pretty amazing usually, hahaha