"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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We need to talk about us.

1-800-HellNo

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Just got a text from this girl I've been seeing about once a week for a few months. Something along the lines of "we need to talk about us. Can you come to the city Saturday"
I don't really want to go to the city, especially if I won't even be getting laid.
What should I say?
Tell her I'm busy and try to get her to tell me over the phone?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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1-800-HellNo

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lol i just got broken up with.
 

VladPatton

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Translation: I am sick of banging you, found another dude, things need to end.
 

1-800-HellNo

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VladPatton said:
Translation: I am sick of banging you, found another dude, things need to end.
I'm familiar with what it means.
I've just never had it droped on me before so I was looking for some tips on how to get thorough the convo in the best way possible.

I just had her call me. She started crying saying she was starting to get serious feelings and doesn't get to see me enough.

I knew what was going on, but I still had no idea what to say.
I said that sometimes things just don't work out.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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j0504s

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just ignore her it will drive her insane...or turn it around on her and be like I actually needed to speak to you...but this isnt working out, a couple other women want to go on dates with me...etc etc...this will drive her insane and will save you the trip....but id stick with just ignore her, no need to create drama in your life and do something you dont want to do....
 
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