"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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We need to talk about us.

1-800-HellNo

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Just got a text from this girl I've been seeing about once a week for a few months. Something along the lines of "we need to talk about us. Can you come to the city Saturday"
I don't really want to go to the city, especially if I won't even be getting laid.
What should I say?
Tell her I'm busy and try to get her to tell me over the phone?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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1-800-HellNo

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lol i just got broken up with.
 

VladPatton

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Translation: I am sick of banging you, found another dude, things need to end.
 

1-800-HellNo

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VladPatton said:
Translation: I am sick of banging you, found another dude, things need to end.
I'm familiar with what it means.
I've just never had it droped on me before so I was looking for some tips on how to get thorough the convo in the best way possible.

I just had her call me. She started crying saying she was starting to get serious feelings and doesn't get to see me enough.

I knew what was going on, but I still had no idea what to say.
I said that sometimes things just don't work out.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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j0504s

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just ignore her it will drive her insane...or turn it around on her and be like I actually needed to speak to you...but this isnt working out, a couple other women want to go on dates with me...etc etc...this will drive her insane and will save you the trip....but id stick with just ignore her, no need to create drama in your life and do something you dont want to do....
 
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