"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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We Need A Section For Field Reports!

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Marlimus

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I just saw a guy on this forum who only registered in September of this year, but already has 281 posts. Given the fact that right now its only the 24th, that averages to at least 11 posts a day, everyday.

Guys, I think we need to face a serious problem- the DDJ, the digital don juan.

I have decided that from now on, ALL I will be posting is field reports, and I think that there needs to be a section devoted to field reports ONLY. I will post no more tips, I will give no more advice. I need to focus on my own game more BEFORE I try to correct others. I'll see you guys in a couple weeks, I've been spending too much time here, something I've only recently realized. I sarge, all right, and I close, but this website has become a crutch, a dependency, and that I cannot abide.

Look out for my field reports.

You can find me in the real world, brothers. Join me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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We need to encourage DJs to meet up with each other and practice their game. There are so many members...I'm sure some of us live close enough to practice together.
 
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I've tried messaging some of the sargeaholics here (from the UK) but rarely get responses from said DDS's.

A Field Report section woudl be a good idea! It's hard to continually paraphrase the DJ bible! ;)
 
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Originally posted by Q-Unit
I've tried messaging some of the sargeaholics here (from the UK) but rarely get responses from said DDS's.

A Field Report section woudl be a good idea! It's hard to continually paraphrase the DJ bible! ;)
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Try talking to Shezzler. He'd probably sarge with you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I wrote "How to Become A Social Millionaire" because I was recently relocated to a new city and got to thinking what has worked for me before in rebuilding a social life from scratch. Since I'm going to apply what I wrote about anyway, I'm thinking about following your lead and turning my tip thread into a string of FR's to show the process by real-world example. Although I'm not sure if anyone would find that interesting & helpfull or just pointless blabber. I'm pretty sure there was a FR section here in the past, just don't know why it was pulled.
 
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affirmative.. i love reading well written field reports
 
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Q-Unit lives in Wetherby - West Yorkshire
I live in Barnsley, South Yorkshire

Where abouts are you?
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I live in Chester.

I go sarging with another guy off this site in Manchester now and again though, you could join us sometime if you don't find travelling that far?
 
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