"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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We Need A Section For Field Reports!

Marlimus

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I just saw a guy on this forum who only registered in September of this year, but already has 281 posts. Given the fact that right now its only the 24th, that averages to at least 11 posts a day, everyday.

Guys, I think we need to face a serious problem- the DDJ, the digital don juan.

I have decided that from now on, ALL I will be posting is field reports, and I think that there needs to be a section devoted to field reports ONLY. I will post no more tips, I will give no more advice. I need to focus on my own game more BEFORE I try to correct others. I'll see you guys in a couple weeks, I've been spending too much time here, something I've only recently realized. I sarge, all right, and I close, but this website has become a crutch, a dependency, and that I cannot abide.

Look out for my field reports.

You can find me in the real world, brothers. Join me.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Inc. ©

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We need to encourage DJs to meet up with each other and practice their game. There are so many members...I'm sure some of us live close enough to practice together.
 

Q-Pid

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I've tried messaging some of the sargeaholics here (from the UK) but rarely get responses from said DDS's.

A Field Report section woudl be a good idea! It's hard to continually paraphrase the DJ bible! ;)
 

Inc. ©

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Originally posted by Q-Unit
I've tried messaging some of the sargeaholics here (from the UK) but rarely get responses from said DDS's.

A Field Report section woudl be a good idea! It's hard to continually paraphrase the DJ bible! ;)
Try talking to Shezzler. He'd probably sarge with you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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chili kat

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I wrote "How to Become A Social Millionaire" because I was recently relocated to a new city and got to thinking what has worked for me before in rebuilding a social life from scratch. Since I'm going to apply what I wrote about anyway, I'm thinking about following your lead and turning my tip thread into a string of FR's to show the process by real-world example. Although I'm not sure if anyone would find that interesting & helpfull or just pointless blabber. I'm pretty sure there was a FR section here in the past, just don't know why it was pulled.
 

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affirmative.. i love reading well written field reports
 

GodsGiftToFatBirds

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Q-Unit lives in Wetherby - West Yorkshire
I live in Barnsley, South Yorkshire

Where abouts are you?
I live in Chester.

I go sarging with another guy off this site in Manchester now and again though, you could join us sometime if you don't find travelling that far?
 
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