"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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We Need A Section For Field Reports!

Marlimus

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I just saw a guy on this forum who only registered in September of this year, but already has 281 posts. Given the fact that right now its only the 24th, that averages to at least 11 posts a day, everyday.

Guys, I think we need to face a serious problem- the DDJ, the digital don juan.

I have decided that from now on, ALL I will be posting is field reports, and I think that there needs to be a section devoted to field reports ONLY. I will post no more tips, I will give no more advice. I need to focus on my own game more BEFORE I try to correct others. I'll see you guys in a couple weeks, I've been spending too much time here, something I've only recently realized. I sarge, all right, and I close, but this website has become a crutch, a dependency, and that I cannot abide.

Look out for my field reports.

You can find me in the real world, brothers. Join me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Inc. ©

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We need to encourage DJs to meet up with each other and practice their game. There are so many members...I'm sure some of us live close enough to practice together.
 

Q-Pid

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I've tried messaging some of the sargeaholics here (from the UK) but rarely get responses from said DDS's.

A Field Report section woudl be a good idea! It's hard to continually paraphrase the DJ bible! ;)
 

Inc. ©

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Originally posted by Q-Unit
I've tried messaging some of the sargeaholics here (from the UK) but rarely get responses from said DDS's.

A Field Report section woudl be a good idea! It's hard to continually paraphrase the DJ bible! ;)
Try talking to Shezzler. He'd probably sarge with you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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chili kat

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I wrote "How to Become A Social Millionaire" because I was recently relocated to a new city and got to thinking what has worked for me before in rebuilding a social life from scratch. Since I'm going to apply what I wrote about anyway, I'm thinking about following your lead and turning my tip thread into a string of FR's to show the process by real-world example. Although I'm not sure if anyone would find that interesting & helpfull or just pointless blabber. I'm pretty sure there was a FR section here in the past, just don't know why it was pulled.
 

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affirmative.. i love reading well written field reports
 

GodsGiftToFatBirds

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Q-Unit lives in Wetherby - West Yorkshire
I live in Barnsley, South Yorkshire

Where abouts are you?
I live in Chester.

I go sarging with another guy off this site in Manchester now and again though, you could join us sometime if you don't find travelling that far?
 
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