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We have sex but she rarely initates contact

BadBoy89

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Don’t bring Doc Love into this if you’re going to misquote his material. Never in the system does it say ignore or play around with incoming contact from a girl. On the contrary...
‘Doc, I met a girl, she is young and hot and we had a great first date on Feb 1. We kissed at the end and I would love to see her again. Id like to call her again.“
”OK you can call her.”
”Should I call Feb 2?” No
”Should I call Feb 3?” No
”Should I call Feb 4?“ No
”Should I call Feb 5?” No
“Should I call Feb 6?” No
”Should I call Feb 7?“ No
”Should I call Feb 8?” No
”Should I call Feb 9?” No
”Should I call Feb 10?” No
”Well Doc, when do I call her?”
”Call her Feb 11. Remember, in order for you to be CHALLENGE, you have to wait 9 FULL DAYS before you call a hot young girl who is in demand by society.”
”Well Doc, won’t she lose feelings/interest/meet a taller more handsome guy in those 9 days?”
”No, no. As long as you are a CHALLENGE. This hot young girl who millionaires and billionaires are always a looking for won’t forget you.”
”Got it, thanks Doc. Love your material.”

Give me a break.
 

EyeBRollin

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‘Doc, I met a girl, she is young and hot and we had a great first date on Feb 1. We kissed at the end and I would love to see her again. Id like to call her again.“
”OK you can call her.”
”Should I call Feb 2?” No
”Should I call Feb 3?” No
”Should I call Feb 4?“ No
”Should I call Feb 5?” No
“Should I call Feb 6?” No
”Should I call Feb 7?“ No
”Should I call Feb 8?” No
”Should I call Feb 9?” No
”Should I call Feb 10?” No
”Well Doc, when do I call her?”
”Call her Feb 11. Remember, in order for you to be CHALLENGE, you have to wait 9 FULL DAYS before you call a hot young girl who is in demand by society.”
”Well Doc, won’t she lose feelings/interest/meet a taller more handsome guy in those 9 days?”
”No, no. As long as you are a CHALLENGE. This hot young girl who millionaires and billionaires are always a looking for won’t forget you.”
”Got it, thanks Doc. Love your material.”

Give me a break.
That’s what we call a strawman argument. The concept of challenge comes from interviewing thousands of women over decades and why the ended up with their current partner. Challenge was a common theme. Women value men they had to work for.

The actual correct play is to wait 5-9 days. Nine days is acceptable to accommodate for weekends (since you don’t call on Friday or Saturday). If the girl has interest level, the space has a positive effect on her feelings. It’s counterintuitive to people with limited game that scarcity increases value. This is true and always will be true.
 

TheFinalLine

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‘Doc, I met a girl, she is young and hot and we had a great first date on Feb 1. We kissed at the end and I would love to see her again. Id like to call her again.“
”OK you can call her.”
”Should I call Feb 2?” No
”Should I call Feb 3?” No
”Should I call Feb 4?“ No
”Should I call Feb 5?” No
“Should I call Feb 6?” No
”Should I call Feb 7?“ No
”Should I call Feb 8?” No
”Should I call Feb 9?” No
”Should I call Feb 10?” No
”Well Doc, when do I call her?”
”Call her Feb 11. Remember, in order for you to be CHALLENGE, you have to wait 9 FULL DAYS before you call a hot young girl who is in demand by society.”
”Well Doc, won’t she lose feelings/interest/meet a taller more handsome guy in those 9 days?”
”No, no. As long as you are a CHALLENGE. This hot young girl who millionaires and billionaires are always a looking for won’t forget you.”
”Got it, thanks Doc. Love your material.”

Give me a break.
Hahahaha
 

FuzzX

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Hey fellow Djs

As the title says. How to deal with a girl who is also a good friend that you have sex with and you like but rarely initiates contact? (Like: almost never), but always make herself available when you ask for a date. I hate overpursuing even though i get what i want.
Sounds like a garbage relationship. Good quality girls don't fvck their friends.
 
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