"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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We both like each other...nOW WHAT

Kerensky

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Sounds like a simple AFC question right?

Not quite my friends.

Thing is, I got this girl to say that she liked me by going C&F on her and just playin with words and innuendos.

So she tells me she likes me, and I say I feel the same. So now wtf do I do?? I can't ask her out on a date immediately because I am kind of busy right now. What should I do?

Up the kino? more kino? more talking? etc etc. tips please.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Evangenlion

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go for the kiss.
plant it, and let it grow.

the question you need to ask your self is "what do i want from her?" when you know that, you know your goal.

but i'm guessing your like every horny kid out there, so your goal would be to bed her right?!

then the kino must upgrade to explicit kino. more touch at the places where you shouldn't be touching.
 

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Heh! MY ex still likes me. She's dumping her bf (because she don't like him much), but also to go out with me.

Haha...talk about stupidity to a whole new medium. I'm going with it because I kinda like her too, but she's also hot :D and good practice of these L33T skillz. (lame)
 

Kerensky

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yeah I think i'll try to kiss close. If anyone has some kiss close pointers, that would be GREAT.

All I know to do is something like this: have convo --> develop some deeper rapport --> pause in convo --> look into her eyes --> kiss

So yea, I've been sick for the past WEEEEKK ARRGGHH argh but I'll be back tomorrow in top shape. But until then, I'm going to talk to her more, touch more, and keep interest up. Does that sound like a plan??

Let me know my DJ brothers.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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use the DYD kiss test:

at a good moment say: You're hair looks so soft, then touch her hair. If she likes it, stroke her hair again, look in her eyes and glance at her lips. If she seems to like this, go in for the kiss.

Easy way, to see if she's ready for a kiss and there isn't anything she can object to since you're just being nice and complimentary.
 
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