"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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We both like each other...nOW WHAT

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Sounds like a simple AFC question right?

Not quite my friends.

Thing is, I got this girl to say that she liked me by going C&F on her and just playin with words and innuendos.

So she tells me she likes me, and I say I feel the same. So now wtf do I do?? I can't ask her out on a date immediately because I am kind of busy right now. What should I do?

Up the kino? more kino? more talking? etc etc. tips please.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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go for the kiss.
plant it, and let it grow.

the question you need to ask your self is "what do i want from her?" when you know that, you know your goal.

but i'm guessing your like every horny kid out there, so your goal would be to bed her right?!

then the kino must upgrade to explicit kino. more touch at the places where you shouldn't be touching.
 
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Heh! MY ex still likes me. She's dumping her bf (because she don't like him much), but also to go out with me.

Haha...talk about stupidity to a whole new medium. I'm going with it because I kinda like her too, but she's also hot :D and good practice of these L33T skillz. (lame)
 
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yeah I think i'll try to kiss close. If anyone has some kiss close pointers, that would be GREAT.

All I know to do is something like this: have convo --> develop some deeper rapport --> pause in convo --> look into her eyes --> kiss

So yea, I've been sick for the past WEEEEKK ARRGGHH argh but I'll be back tomorrow in top shape. But until then, I'm going to talk to her more, touch more, and keep interest up. Does that sound like a plan??

Let me know my DJ brothers.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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use the DYD kiss test:

at a good moment say: You're hair looks so soft, then touch her hair. If she likes it, stroke her hair again, look in her eyes and glance at her lips. If she seems to like this, go in for the kiss.

Easy way, to see if she's ready for a kiss and there isn't anything she can object to since you're just being nice and complimentary.
 
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