"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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We both like each other...nOW WHAT

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Sounds like a simple AFC question right?

Not quite my friends.

Thing is, I got this girl to say that she liked me by going C&F on her and just playin with words and innuendos.

So she tells me she likes me, and I say I feel the same. So now wtf do I do?? I can't ask her out on a date immediately because I am kind of busy right now. What should I do?

Up the kino? more kino? more talking? etc etc. tips please.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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go for the kiss.
plant it, and let it grow.

the question you need to ask your self is "what do i want from her?" when you know that, you know your goal.

but i'm guessing your like every horny kid out there, so your goal would be to bed her right?!

then the kino must upgrade to explicit kino. more touch at the places where you shouldn't be touching.
 
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Heh! MY ex still likes me. She's dumping her bf (because she don't like him much), but also to go out with me.

Haha...talk about stupidity to a whole new medium. I'm going with it because I kinda like her too, but she's also hot :D and good practice of these L33T skillz. (lame)
 
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yeah I think i'll try to kiss close. If anyone has some kiss close pointers, that would be GREAT.

All I know to do is something like this: have convo --> develop some deeper rapport --> pause in convo --> look into her eyes --> kiss

So yea, I've been sick for the past WEEEEKK ARRGGHH argh but I'll be back tomorrow in top shape. But until then, I'm going to talk to her more, touch more, and keep interest up. Does that sound like a plan??

Let me know my DJ brothers.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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use the DYD kiss test:

at a good moment say: You're hair looks so soft, then touch her hair. If she likes it, stroke her hair again, look in her eyes and glance at her lips. If she seems to like this, go in for the kiss.

Easy way, to see if she's ready for a kiss and there isn't anything she can object to since you're just being nice and complimentary.
 
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