"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alrite, so we are studying to become dj's. This means something different to each and every person. Your goal could be to become the ladies man and be the center of the girls' attention. Maybe it's to find a hott girlfriend and keep her forever. It could be to just get as much pvssy as you possibly can without your c*ck falling off.

But let's face it, once you have started getting it and becoming successful, the girls will notice. They will become interested, it will become easier for you. But this also means another thing, for me at least, and I'm guessing the same applies for some of you out there reading this: Girls see you as a player.

Pretty much no matter what I do, I manage to get some girls to see me as a 'player' or 'swinger' sometime. This isn't a problem with every girl, but it is with a lot of them. Unless they are really slutty, if they think they are not your only one, or that you are playing them, then they will NOT feel good about giving anything up to you.

This is like a thing that they have implanted in them and even if i'm not playing, they usually think I am.

So how do we handle this? How can we show that we are true and make them believe that we are not users (whether we are or not doesn't matter) Let's discuss.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It depends on how you use the stuff that you learn. Talk to a couple girls (1 or 2....maybe even 3 at most at a time). Where alot of "djs" make their mistakes is when they get excited because they are doing things with success and they hit on too many girls at one time. Girls tell other girls about there encounter with guys, so, the best thing to do is stay with a couple at a time.

Good Luck:cool:
 

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Yeah, I've found that if you keep the girls you are f*cking with at a distance from each other, you are usually pretty safe. Also, if they think you have lots of girls, it helps fromt the start. Then, later on, you just have to convince them that they are the only one. (and yes, you are right about finding success all at once thing, I hooked up w/3 girls this weekend haha ):D
 
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