"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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We are the players

kev me723

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Alrite, so we are studying to become dj's. This means something different to each and every person. Your goal could be to become the ladies man and be the center of the girls' attention. Maybe it's to find a hott girlfriend and keep her forever. It could be to just get as much pvssy as you possibly can without your c*ck falling off.

But let's face it, once you have started getting it and becoming successful, the girls will notice. They will become interested, it will become easier for you. But this also means another thing, for me at least, and I'm guessing the same applies for some of you out there reading this: Girls see you as a player.

Pretty much no matter what I do, I manage to get some girls to see me as a 'player' or 'swinger' sometime. This isn't a problem with every girl, but it is with a lot of them. Unless they are really slutty, if they think they are not your only one, or that you are playing them, then they will NOT feel good about giving anything up to you.

This is like a thing that they have implanted in them and even if i'm not playing, they usually think I am.

So how do we handle this? How can we show that we are true and make them believe that we are not users (whether we are or not doesn't matter) Let's discuss.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It depends on how you use the stuff that you learn. Talk to a couple girls (1 or 2....maybe even 3 at most at a time). Where alot of "djs" make their mistakes is when they get excited because they are doing things with success and they hit on too many girls at one time. Girls tell other girls about there encounter with guys, so, the best thing to do is stay with a couple at a time.

Good Luck:cool:
 

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Yeah, I've found that if you keep the girls you are f*cking with at a distance from each other, you are usually pretty safe. Also, if they think you have lots of girls, it helps fromt the start. Then, later on, you just have to convince them that they are the only one. (and yes, you are right about finding success all at once thing, I hooked up w/3 girls this weekend haha ):D
 
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