"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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We are the players

kev me723

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Alrite, so we are studying to become dj's. This means something different to each and every person. Your goal could be to become the ladies man and be the center of the girls' attention. Maybe it's to find a hott girlfriend and keep her forever. It could be to just get as much pvssy as you possibly can without your c*ck falling off.

But let's face it, once you have started getting it and becoming successful, the girls will notice. They will become interested, it will become easier for you. But this also means another thing, for me at least, and I'm guessing the same applies for some of you out there reading this: Girls see you as a player.

Pretty much no matter what I do, I manage to get some girls to see me as a 'player' or 'swinger' sometime. This isn't a problem with every girl, but it is with a lot of them. Unless they are really slutty, if they think they are not your only one, or that you are playing them, then they will NOT feel good about giving anything up to you.

This is like a thing that they have implanted in them and even if i'm not playing, they usually think I am.

So how do we handle this? How can we show that we are true and make them believe that we are not users (whether we are or not doesn't matter) Let's discuss.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJ4Real

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It depends on how you use the stuff that you learn. Talk to a couple girls (1 or 2....maybe even 3 at most at a time). Where alot of "djs" make their mistakes is when they get excited because they are doing things with success and they hit on too many girls at one time. Girls tell other girls about there encounter with guys, so, the best thing to do is stay with a couple at a time.

Good Luck:cool:
 

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Yeah, I've found that if you keep the girls you are f*cking with at a distance from each other, you are usually pretty safe. Also, if they think you have lots of girls, it helps fromt the start. Then, later on, you just have to convince them that they are the only one. (and yes, you are right about finding success all at once thing, I hooked up w/3 girls this weekend haha ):D
 
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