Just thinking about this this morning.
Let's just take a social/public environment and a girl/clique doesn't find you attractive. In fact let's just take out the sexual attraction element.
A great number of girls/women seem to be so good at dishing out abusive comments at guys they don't find attractive (especially in groups). They do this in the teens, and it could continue to even their 40s. And I'm not even talking about romantic/sexual interest (or lack of it), I'm talking about just a basic social/fundamental communication level, or moreover, any situation in life that doesn't call for looks to be a factor.
Then in a dating context, they say they don't like it when guys have 'hearts on their sleeves' etc at expressing insecurity, meekness etc.
Maybe its the guy in me not being able to multitask, but you can't have both.
Do they have some sick sense of humour or what?
I hate this moral deterioration between the genders. I'm trying desperately hard to keep this from being a whine thread, and I don't want to be that 'heart on his sleeve' guy. Just saying. Thoughts?
Let's just take a social/public environment and a girl/clique doesn't find you attractive. In fact let's just take out the sexual attraction element.
A great number of girls/women seem to be so good at dishing out abusive comments at guys they don't find attractive (especially in groups). They do this in the teens, and it could continue to even their 40s. And I'm not even talking about romantic/sexual interest (or lack of it), I'm talking about just a basic social/fundamental communication level, or moreover, any situation in life that doesn't call for looks to be a factor.
Then in a dating context, they say they don't like it when guys have 'hearts on their sleeves' etc at expressing insecurity, meekness etc.
Maybe its the guy in me not being able to multitask, but you can't have both.
Do they have some sick sense of humour or what?
I hate this moral deterioration between the genders. I'm trying desperately hard to keep this from being a whine thread, and I don't want to be that 'heart on his sleeve' guy. Just saying. Thoughts?