“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ways to Disarming a hot women besides NEG

DJnoob

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ok, so you want hot chick to be your friend ONLY for social proof. How would you disarm her? Do you just tell her right away, "lets hang out sunday?..oh don't worry im taken already" (even if you don't have a GF)

Anymore ways? And if you have done this or field tested it, share your experience.

Thakns
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

flexion_

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You aren't trying to date her - so there is no need to disarm her.

Just be her friend as you wanted. Only the dudes having sex or relationships with her need to worry about that because they are trying to establish attraction.
 

DJnoob

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so, technically speaking this means

1. Use friendly kino?
2. No flirting at all
3. teasing? yes?
4. anymore?>
 

Le Parisien

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DJnoob said:
so, technically speaking this means

1. Use friendly kino?
2. No flirting at all
3. teasing? yes?
4. anymore?>
I mean seriously man, if you really just want to be friends with hot women, what's so difficult?

How do you become friends with your male buddies? By being friendly, being interesting, being generous, being the right type of person to connect with them. You are friendly, but you are not a pushover, and you don't try too hard to become their friend.

You don't ask yourself:
Should I be funny?
Should I buy them drinks when we go out?
Should I call them or should they call me?
etc...
You just know, you can feel it.

Basically it's just a natural process.

So why do you ask yourself so many questions about having hot female friends? Sorry man, but looks like you are not being honest with yourself and with us. You still have an agenda, you are still interested in getting with them. Therefore, you are NOT trying to be their friend. Social proof or not...:down: :nono:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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flexion_ said:
You aren't trying to date her - so there is no need to disarm her.

Just be her friend as you wanted. Only the dudes having sex or relationships with her need to worry about that because they are trying to establish attraction.
I agree. :up:
 

johnmich

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to be her friend, jus do what you would normally do without trying to pull her
 

The Truth

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Disarm? You're talking as if women are some kind of threat or are hostile. That's the wrong frame of mind.

Just treat all women of all levels of hotness like good pals youve known for ages. You wouldn't need to "disarm" your mate would you?
 
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