"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ways david deangelo and sosuave have changed my life

wildchild

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Does anyone else share this experiance im going to be talking to you about if so please post.

Before i got to read sosuave i was already pretty lucky with girls and picked up a few hot ones but i also made alot of ****ups that made me feel bad and i tried to think why this was happening and always wondering if it was my fault or not.

When i started reading sosuave and reading DD`s newsletters things started to come together and i realised that it was my fault i was messing up and it brought some closer to that thought and helped me focus on more possitive things i realised it had nothing to do with me as a person all i needed was to improve myself.

It made me realise how i ****ed up in the past and how i can help to prevent it happening in the future, it made me more confident in different aspects of my life it also got me reading alot more on interesting subjects such as psychology,biology and i feel it made me understand certain things about life i didnt understand before , so on behalf of myself and prolly every other person that posts on sosuave - thankyou very much
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Did you know that David Deangelo actually steals my kicka$$ tips from me? He also doesn't know how to cook for himself.
 

wildchild

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i dont care who he takes them from he compiles them in a gr8 manner and has loads of knowledge:p
 

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Yeah, regardless of the controversy over who came up with which ideas... they've really helped me, too. I used to have really bad luck and it seemed like something was wrong with me, but I didn't know what. I'm already a nice guy, and I was actually trying to be nicer to impress girls. I had no clue--I had the obvious nagging feeling that they went for total jerks, but I didn't know why or what I could do about it. Thanks to this net advice I've been able to make sense of all my past experiences that previously seemed like dumb luck, good or bad--and I've figured out how to be nice without looking weak, and how to take on the attractive qualities of a jerk without becoming a jerk. I still have a long way to go to master those things, but I feel 1000% better just understanding what to strive for.
 

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Nice one likerofwomen i can totally tell were your coming from.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I also didnt seem to have alot of trouble getting into relationships etc. but DID make alot of ****ups where I couldnt see what went wrong. Most importantly, I found myself asking myself how I should be acting around girlfriends and such. Now that Ive been reading the posts and the bible and applying it to my experiece a little I find myself thinking less and less about how I should act, because its all natural now. Im sure I could get into much more detail but Im sure you guys already understand.
 

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That's the beauty of poring through the sosuave and ASF archives.

You get to ANALYZE your previous fvck-ups and UNDERSTAND what you did wrong. But you can only slap yourself and pound your fists into the wall so many times :D
 
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