"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ways david deangelo and sosuave have changed my life

wildchild

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Does anyone else share this experiance im going to be talking to you about if so please post.

Before i got to read sosuave i was already pretty lucky with girls and picked up a few hot ones but i also made alot of ****ups that made me feel bad and i tried to think why this was happening and always wondering if it was my fault or not.

When i started reading sosuave and reading DD`s newsletters things started to come together and i realised that it was my fault i was messing up and it brought some closer to that thought and helped me focus on more possitive things i realised it had nothing to do with me as a person all i needed was to improve myself.

It made me realise how i ****ed up in the past and how i can help to prevent it happening in the future, it made me more confident in different aspects of my life it also got me reading alot more on interesting subjects such as psychology,biology and i feel it made me understand certain things about life i didnt understand before , so on behalf of myself and prolly every other person that posts on sosuave - thankyou very much
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Did you know that David Deangelo actually steals my kicka$$ tips from me? He also doesn't know how to cook for himself.
 

wildchild

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i dont care who he takes them from he compiles them in a gr8 manner and has loads of knowledge:p
 

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Yeah, regardless of the controversy over who came up with which ideas... they've really helped me, too. I used to have really bad luck and it seemed like something was wrong with me, but I didn't know what. I'm already a nice guy, and I was actually trying to be nicer to impress girls. I had no clue--I had the obvious nagging feeling that they went for total jerks, but I didn't know why or what I could do about it. Thanks to this net advice I've been able to make sense of all my past experiences that previously seemed like dumb luck, good or bad--and I've figured out how to be nice without looking weak, and how to take on the attractive qualities of a jerk without becoming a jerk. I still have a long way to go to master those things, but I feel 1000% better just understanding what to strive for.
 

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Nice one likerofwomen i can totally tell were your coming from.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I also didnt seem to have alot of trouble getting into relationships etc. but DID make alot of ****ups where I couldnt see what went wrong. Most importantly, I found myself asking myself how I should be acting around girlfriends and such. Now that Ive been reading the posts and the bible and applying it to my experiece a little I find myself thinking less and less about how I should act, because its all natural now. Im sure I could get into much more detail but Im sure you guys already understand.
 

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That's the beauty of poring through the sosuave and ASF archives.

You get to ANALYZE your previous fvck-ups and UNDERSTAND what you did wrong. But you can only slap yourself and pound your fists into the wall so many times :D
 
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