Way too many AFC's?

[KG33]

I was gamein' this girl who showed some interest. I had her on the hook and she was startin to chase. Then BOOM!!! nothin... So Im thinkin she must have gone to this one club in town and met someone. So Sun night I get home from hangin with one of my dependable booty call girls(HB6-HB7) and I see she posted somthin on Facebook.

She wrote "Had a great V-day tonight at #*%#*%". Then under that the guy had responded with "I had a wonderful time tonight too with an amazing, beautiful woman."

Okay so this dude is obviously an AFC who is gonna get burnt but damn these AFC's get in the way sometimes. Now this chick doesn't need to chase anyone cause she's already got a chump who's willing to chase her and stroke her ego. Effin AFC's!!!

 

[(JJ)]

are you sure about that? sounds like you've merely failed to generate enough interest in her. afc's, generally speaking, dont get in the way. they push the girl further into the arms of the resident dj. although i can see an extenuating circumstance on valentine's, he shouldnt be a long term issue.

 

[Johnny_Kage]

Plenty more girls out there. No worries.

Although I can't really give u any advice about where u went wrong because u didn't really tell us anything (other than she was interested and now she's not anymore).

And as far as the other guy goes, who cares? Don't worry about it. Hot girls have tons of guys around them. Personally, I try not to think about it cuz it fvcks up my game....If you like her, keep going after it, just stop checking her facebook.

JK

 

[SexxiKing777]

Yes. That was super AFC of him to admit that he had a good time with a woman who He found both beautiful and amazing:crazy:

 

[ATP]

You got owned by a AFC

 

[teacha]

yea probably that 'afc' is busy drilling that bitch while you busy spending all your time trying to make her chase you lol.... you had her on hook lol.

btw stop calling people you dont even know, afc.

 

[zekko]

Let's see now, he gets the girl after you fail and HE'S the AFC? Hmm, something doesn't seem right here.

I guess you're assuming the guy is an AFC because he said something nice about the girl on her facebook page. Dude, some guys are real smooth with this sh!t, they play the romance game. I've seen guys win the girl with this kind of thing plenty of times. Now I know on this forum you usually get advice more along the lines of "sit back and wait to be worshipped", but there's more than one way to skin a cat.

This whole DJ/AFC thing is completely overblown. People are people. Very few guys are 100% AFC (or 100% DJ for that matter). People who live in the real world (meaning outside of the pickup community) have a mix of traits, and a lot of them are not as ignorant about women as you might think.

 

[bish0p]

Let's see now, he gets the girl after you fail and HE'S the AFC? Hmm, something doesn't seem right here.

I guess you're assuming the guy is an AFC because he said something nice about the girl on her facebook page. Dude, some guys are real smooth with this sh!t, they play the romance game. I've seen guys win the girl with this kind of thing plenty of times. Now I know on this forum you usually get advice more along the lines of "sit back and wait to be worshipped", but there's more than one way to skin a cat.

This whole DJ/AFC thing is completely overblown. People are people. Very few guys are 100% AFC (or 100% DJ for that matter). People who live in the real world (meaning outside of the pickup community) have a mix of traits, and a lot of them are not as ignorant about women as you might think.

Excellent post. A lot of people here think that there's only one way to do things and they couldn't be anymore wrong.

 

[Forty0ztoFreedom]

True dat . . I remember some girl had her new boyfriend posting the most sickening AFC sh*t you can think of on her Myspace. I was brand new at all this so I figured "OMG she's gonna cheat on him soon/blow him out!" No, they're still together, and she usually would respond with similar gushy crap.

Maybe she's screwing around but honestly, doubt it.

 

[bish0p]

True dat . . I remember some girl had her new boyfriend posting the most sickening AFC sh*t you can think of on her Myspace. I was brand new at all this so I figured "OMG she's gonna cheat on him soon/blow him out!" No, they're still together, and she usually would respond with similar gushy crap.

Maybe she's screwing around but honestly, doubt it.

haha...I saw the same thing with one of my friends and his girl on facebook. He keeps saying "I love you" and calling her "bavee" (baby) and it makes my head spin. But, she does it back it to him as well. On a side note, she's tall and attractive, and he's short and funny, but confident.

 

[Proselytiser]

This whole DJ/AFC thing is completely overblown. People are people. Very few guys are 100% AFC (or 100% DJ for that matter). People who live in the real world (meaning outside of the pickup community) have a mix of traits, and a lot of them are not as ignorant about women as you might think.

This is exactly right. Most people are not AFC - the AFC that is often talked about on SS only ever appears in real life as the dorky kid in American Pie movies.