"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Way to find out a woman has a boyfriend

LADawg49

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What are some methods everyone in here uses to find out if a woman you are approaching has a man?
For me what I do is I will noticed somethin the girl is possesing and ill tell her about it and then tell her, "Your boyfriend must have made a good choice when he got you....." If she says, I dont have a boyfriend, then she is mine to lose and I proceed from there
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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kel

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"are you single?"

works every time!
 

The Bartender

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Ask...if you arent confident enough to do that then you at least know where you need to improve. Another suggestion is that you could play off of something she says, and respond in a c/f way with the word "boyfriend" in the sentence. If she doesnt have one, she'll correct you.

Ex. She's talking about how she has to get going or something...respond with "Oh does your boyfriend have you on curfew? What a control freak..."
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Ummm, why should you care?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Bartender

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Ummm, why should you care?
Oh perfecto right there. Chicks are scandelous too...they'll forget they have a boyfriend if you play your cards right.
 

Playboi0323

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I don't even ask. If it comes up, then it comes up.
 
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