"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Way to find out a woman has a boyfriend

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LADawg49

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What are some methods everyone in here uses to find out if a woman you are approaching has a man?
For me what I do is I will noticed somethin the girl is possesing and ill tell her about it and then tell her, "Your boyfriend must have made a good choice when he got you....." If she says, I dont have a boyfriend, then she is mine to lose and I proceed from there
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"are you single?"

works every time!
 
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Ask...if you arent confident enough to do that then you at least know where you need to improve. Another suggestion is that you could play off of something she says, and respond in a c/f way with the word "boyfriend" in the sentence. If she doesnt have one, she'll correct you.

Ex. She's talking about how she has to get going or something...respond with "Oh does your boyfriend have you on curfew? What a control freak..."
 
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Ummm, why should you care?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Ummm, why should you care?
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Oh perfecto right there. Chicks are scandelous too...they'll forget they have a boyfriend if you play your cards right.
 
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I don't even ask. If it comes up, then it comes up.
 
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