"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Waving to a woman

K2000kidd

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i know this sounds stupid but a woman i work with made a big deal to her friends about me waving and always saying hi to her. I do this with about 80 percent of the people i work with
does waving and just being friendly/social towards a woman give her a sense of power?

i mean if i didn't interact with people work would just be work ya know
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Jeremymichael

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saying hello to work colleagues is normal. Do you make a point of finding her and is the waving a bit over the top?
 

WC2

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Sure, I wave to all the time. I can't imagine how else I would thoughtfully say hi to woman during the day and let her know I "mean it".

As a matter of fact, when I wave I come to a full stop, lift my right hand then carefully lift my middle finger. Smiling is always a bonus.

Yes, waving is gay. No, it's not the end of the world.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DrD77

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if i ever wave its more of me lifting my arm in the air without moving it and just exposing my hand to the person im waving at.
 

K2000kidd

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yeahh i mean mine isn't a flailing "hey i'm so happy to see you" type of wave
its a pretty much peace sign with thumb extending out
nothing could be called flitatious about it
LOL i used to use gun fingers back in the day though
 

r0cky

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Waving is normal for you, because you're a social person.
The girl is retarded and probably anti-social.
In other words, she's the one at fault here, you're only being your social self.
 
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