"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Waving to a woman

K2000kidd

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i know this sounds stupid but a woman i work with made a big deal to her friends about me waving and always saying hi to her. I do this with about 80 percent of the people i work with
does waving and just being friendly/social towards a woman give her a sense of power?

i mean if i didn't interact with people work would just be work ya know
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jeremymichael

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saying hello to work colleagues is normal. Do you make a point of finding her and is the waving a bit over the top?
 

WC2

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Sure, I wave to all the time. I can't imagine how else I would thoughtfully say hi to woman during the day and let her know I "mean it".

As a matter of fact, when I wave I come to a full stop, lift my right hand then carefully lift my middle finger. Smiling is always a bonus.

Yes, waving is gay. No, it's not the end of the world.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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DrD77

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if i ever wave its more of me lifting my arm in the air without moving it and just exposing my hand to the person im waving at.
 

K2000kidd

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yeahh i mean mine isn't a flailing "hey i'm so happy to see you" type of wave
its a pretty much peace sign with thumb extending out
nothing could be called flitatious about it
LOL i used to use gun fingers back in the day though
 

r0cky

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Waving is normal for you, because you're a social person.
The girl is retarded and probably anti-social.
In other words, she's the one at fault here, you're only being your social self.
 
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