backseatjuan
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Where you at? Take a pic, show us. Community will vote on the coolest pic. Winner will receive some sort of sh1t in mail. Maybe use diaper, maybe women's panties, maybe something cool. Don't go by, participate.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Wats outside your place? Contest.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
logicallefty
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I took this pic right up the road from my house several months ago.
dustmuffin
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I usually have hobos outside my door. But might try to get a pic of something
Atom Smasher
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Panties you say?!
View out back.
View out back.
logicallefty
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@Atom Smasher GTFO I thought you were a city guy. That is awesome. I don't picture the East coast looking like that. That looks more like my area, Illinois. We have a lot of flat areas but we also have areas that look just like that.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Atom Smasher
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This is my place in NH. If I were to pan the camera a little to the right you'd see much taller mountains with wind turbines on them. Beautiful.
I used to travel out to Shaumberg a lot in my younger days. I really liked it out there and the women were FINE and approachable.
I used to travel out to Shaumberg a lot in my younger days. I really liked it out there and the women were FINE and approachable.
zekko
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Gorgeous. It looks like it could be a golf course.
Bible_Belt
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View from my back door:
Atom Smasher
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Funny you should say that. There's a golf course just 100 yards from me to the right of this shot.
zekko
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I knew it!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
backseatjuan
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It's near water, I see a sailbot on first picture in the top right corner there is a sail.