backseatjuan
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Where you at? Take a pic, show us. Community will vote on the coolest pic. Winner will receive some sort of sh1t in mail. Maybe use diaper, maybe women's panties, maybe something cool. Don't go by, participate.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Wats outside your place? Contest.
- Thread starter backseatjuan
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
logicallefty
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I took this pic right up the road from my house several months ago.
dustmuffin
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I usually have hobos outside my door. But might try to get a pic of something
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Panties you say?!
View out back.
View out back.
logicallefty
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@Atom Smasher GTFO I thought you were a city guy. That is awesome. I don't picture the East coast looking like that. That looks more like my area, Illinois. We have a lot of flat areas but we also have areas that look just like that.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
This is my place in NH. If I were to pan the camera a little to the right you'd see much taller mountains with wind turbines on them. Beautiful.
I used to travel out to Shaumberg a lot in my younger days. I really liked it out there and the women were FINE and approachable.
I used to travel out to Shaumberg a lot in my younger days. I really liked it out there and the women were FINE and approachable.
zekko
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Gorgeous. It looks like it could be a golf course.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
View from my back door:
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Funny you should say that. There's a golf course just 100 yards from me to the right of this shot.
zekko
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I knew it!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
backseatjuan
Banned
It's near water, I see a sailbot on first picture in the top right corner there is a sail.