backseatjuan
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Where you at? Take a pic, show us. Community will vote on the coolest pic. Winner will receive some sort of sh1t in mail. Maybe use diaper, maybe women's panties, maybe something cool. Don't go by, participate.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Wats outside your place? Contest.
- Thread starter backseatjuan
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
logicallefty
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I took this pic right up the road from my house several months ago.
dustmuffin
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I usually have hobos outside my door. But might try to get a pic of something
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Panties you say?!
View out back.
View out back.
logicallefty
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@Atom Smasher GTFO I thought you were a city guy. That is awesome. I don't picture the East coast looking like that. That looks more like my area, Illinois. We have a lot of flat areas but we also have areas that look just like that.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
This is my place in NH. If I were to pan the camera a little to the right you'd see much taller mountains with wind turbines on them. Beautiful.
I used to travel out to Shaumberg a lot in my younger days. I really liked it out there and the women were FINE and approachable.
I used to travel out to Shaumberg a lot in my younger days. I really liked it out there and the women were FINE and approachable.
zekko
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Gorgeous. It looks like it could be a golf course.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
View from my back door:
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Funny you should say that. There's a golf course just 100 yards from me to the right of this shot.
zekko
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I knew it!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
backseatjuan
Banned
It's near water, I see a sailbot on first picture in the top right corner there is a sail.