"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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wats does "i need a break" mean to u?

wat does "i need a break" mean

  • break up *so start looking for someone else*

    Votes: 33 97.1%
  • a break *no need to worry*

    Votes: 1 2.9%

  • Total voters
    34

Evo

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when a ur gf said "i need a break" do u think thats womenese for breaking up or she really wants a break
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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LikRetsam

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What it means to me? I have never been there but it would mean that I would have to reply:

I don't believe in breaks. You knew what you got yourself into coming into this relationship. We end or we continue, there will be no middle ground.

When a girl tells you that, it means she wants to break up most of the time. This is not the time to use some smart ass ****y funny reply like :Am I so much work that you need a break?

You tell her clearly that you don't want a break. It's eather a break up or nothing.

Lik
 

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
What it means to me? I have never been there but it would mean that I would have to reply:

I don't believe in breaks. You knew what you got yourself into coming into this relationship. We end or we continue, there will be no middle ground.

When a girl tells you that, it means she wants to break up most of the time. This is not the time to use some smart ass ****y funny reply like :Am I so much work that you need a break?

You tell her clearly that you don't want a break. It's eather a break up or nothing.

Lik
Yeah, wtf. If she needs a "break" now, she was never ready for the LTR in the first place. Time to break up with her, IMHO.
 

blienk

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If you agree to "taking a break" right now, I have a feeling that a month from now you'll be agreeing that "we were never really meant for each other". It's over, man.
 

Jester

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as was already said

break up with her..period. no excuses no bullsh1t, no reason to stay. DOnt be a ***** break up with her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Sammo

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Please let me have the honor of re-inforcing the idea:

"Don't be a *****, break up with her"

:)
 

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wow cool i thought it means break up too but i just wanted others opinion on it
 

NYC Dude

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21-0 sure shows our views pretty well I'd say. Dump her, she wants to as well but she's too insecure to actually call it off.
 

Nightspark

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I need a break 99.99% of the time means... i wanna break up with you and try new people... where she might use this break to find something better and eventually she comes back to you if nothing is good enough for her. It's up to you to take her back or not... but by that time you'd probably found someone else...


only rarely does it ACTUALLY mean i want a break but i will not go out looking for other people... (00.01% chance)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Blowfish

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Don't know, I assume its take a break, but then usually its just saying **** off I dun want you no more.

But u never know.
 

wh01987

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"I want a break baby"

transilation =

" I want to **** around with new people lets not go out anymore"
 

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Let me share with you guys my experience with this "I need a break" thing:

Years ago, before my friend told me about sosuave.com.....

I was told by my then-girlfriend that she needed a break. Being the naive young boy that I was, I thought "ok so she just needs a little space, whatever".

A few awkward days later, we got back together. I dont even want to go into some of the things that we did together ... but I was such an AFC....

Anyway not long afterwards we ended up breaking up anyway.

So the moral of this story? Well I guess "wh01987" summed it up pretty well.
 
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