"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
wats does "i need a break" mean to u?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I don't believe in breaks. You knew what you got yourself into coming into this relationship. We end or we continue, there will be no middle ground.
When a girl tells you that, it means she wants to break up most of the time. This is not the time to use some smart ass ****y funny reply like :Am I so much work that you need a break?
You tell her clearly that you don't want a break. It's eather a break up or nothing.
Lik
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Yeah, wtf. If she needs a "break" now, she was never ready for the LTR in the first place. Time to break up with her, IMHO.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
NYC Dude
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Nightspark
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only rarely does it ACTUALLY mean i want a break but i will not go out looking for other people... (00.01% chance)
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Absolute Pimp
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cant think of a user name
Master Don Juan
Years ago, before my friend told me about sosuave.com.....
I was told by my then-girlfriend that she needed a break. Being the naive young boy that I was, I thought "ok so she just needs a little space, whatever".
A few awkward days later, we got back together. I dont even want to go into some of the things that we did together ... but I was such an AFC....
Anyway not long afterwards we ended up breaking up anyway.
So the moral of this story? Well I guess "wh01987" summed it up pretty well.