"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Watched dj first date tips work on a dating show.

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The show I saw setup one girl on 3 dates. All the guys seemed good but one stood out. The 2 guys seemed to try and were obvious. The 3rd guy took her to a cuban cigar maker. It made her feel a bit awkward. He was the only one not dressed to impress as well..just casual. As the date progressed he revealed how he does volunteer work and how he cares about others...she was pulled in hard by this. She was engaged...sure he let her talk but putting his interests out there for her really got her... After he revealed this interesting thing he didnt give up too much ..stood up and said he has to go.Cut the date short...he said thank you but he has to go.He asked if shed like to see him again? Her face lit up ..pupils dilated as he literally left intrigue on a high.Then he walked away.Not a kiss ..nothing..not even a handshake. This was the clincher.She blurted out yes for sure... Guys I feel it is similar to the teachings here and what is more he engaged her..then stopped mid way and she wanted him badly.
The other guys tried to impress her ..fancy restaurants and it didnt work.
It got me thinking that the mentality to engage her is the best way. Pull her in with intrigue of who you are..break the connection midstream and she will want more....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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push pull technique.......he also did the opposite.......other guys trying to covince her, this guy injected active diss-interest.

its the old playing hard to get repackaged for 2010
 
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