"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Watched dj first date tips work on a dating show.

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The show I saw setup one girl on 3 dates. All the guys seemed good but one stood out. The 2 guys seemed to try and were obvious. The 3rd guy took her to a cuban cigar maker. It made her feel a bit awkward. He was the only one not dressed to impress as well..just casual. As the date progressed he revealed how he does volunteer work and how he cares about others...she was pulled in hard by this. She was engaged...sure he let her talk but putting his interests out there for her really got her... After he revealed this interesting thing he didnt give up too much ..stood up and said he has to go.Cut the date short...he said thank you but he has to go.He asked if shed like to see him again? Her face lit up ..pupils dilated as he literally left intrigue on a high.Then he walked away.Not a kiss ..nothing..not even a handshake. This was the clincher.She blurted out yes for sure... Guys I feel it is similar to the teachings here and what is more he engaged her..then stopped mid way and she wanted him badly.
The other guys tried to impress her ..fancy restaurants and it didnt work.
It got me thinking that the mentality to engage her is the best way. Pull her in with intrigue of who you are..break the connection midstream and she will want more....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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push pull technique.......he also did the opposite.......other guys trying to covince her, this guy injected active diss-interest.

its the old playing hard to get repackaged for 2010
 
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