"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Watched dj first date tips work on a dating show.

romanticman

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The show I saw setup one girl on 3 dates. All the guys seemed good but one stood out. The 2 guys seemed to try and were obvious. The 3rd guy took her to a cuban cigar maker. It made her feel a bit awkward. He was the only one not dressed to impress as well..just casual. As the date progressed he revealed how he does volunteer work and how he cares about others...she was pulled in hard by this. She was engaged...sure he let her talk but putting his interests out there for her really got her... After he revealed this interesting thing he didnt give up too much ..stood up and said he has to go.Cut the date short...he said thank you but he has to go.He asked if shed like to see him again? Her face lit up ..pupils dilated as he literally left intrigue on a high.Then he walked away.Not a kiss ..nothing..not even a handshake. This was the clincher.She blurted out yes for sure... Guys I feel it is similar to the teachings here and what is more he engaged her..then stopped mid way and she wanted him badly.
The other guys tried to impress her ..fancy restaurants and it didnt work.
It got me thinking that the mentality to engage her is the best way. Pull her in with intrigue of who you are..break the connection midstream and she will want more....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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push pull technique.......he also did the opposite.......other guys trying to covince her, this guy injected active diss-interest.

its the old playing hard to get repackaged for 2010
 
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