NYC Dude
Master Don Juan
Hey mods, let's get this moved. Usually you're on this in seconds.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The Antichrist_Star
Master Don Juan
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Sorry guys, I won't be the one to sticky something that a lot of us have seen years ago.
Maybe one of the newer Moderators will do it, but I won't.
Besides... it's funny... just not that funny.
And anyway, if you want to keep it near the top, just continue posting on it... that's what we did back in the day before we even had the sticky feature.
AS
Maybe one of the newer Moderators will do it, but I won't.
Besides... it's funny... just not that funny.
And anyway, if you want to keep it near the top, just continue posting on it... that's what we did back in the day before we even had the sticky feature.
AS
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
:crackup: Back in the day! :crackup:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The Antichrist_Star
Master Don Juan
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Hey... don't laugh at me mother****er, I'm getting old.
AS
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
Fat chance man. I may be new, but I'm not THAT stupid.
Besides, I've seen funnier...