"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Watch the carbs!

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Easy to put on weight I found, yesterday I tipped the scales at 197lbs at 6'3". Was 190lbs like 2 weeks ago.. Sounds good right? Not really... had a geez in the mirror and saw that I'm growing a god damn pot belly!!!:( Due to me eating about 3lbs of potatoes a day I'd say. My tip, avoid carbs in the evening! Otherwise you'll gain weight, except it'll be just be fat.

To you skinny 6'1" 130lbs anorexic freaks out their, don't worry about the carbs, eat 5lbs of potatoes a day and you'll be fat in no time...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Guess what I found out yesterday. I can breathe.

Easy to put on weight....naw really?

I agree with Newbie here. Potatoes = carbs and calories, but if you're eating 3 POUNDS!!! That's a lot of carbs AND calories. If you're not exercising to work it off, then you will gain weight no matter what, unless you sh1t 24/7.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by NEWBIE101
Carbs don't make you fat. Calories do.
Carbs with a high-glycemic index will make you gain weight and retain that weight.

If you were to consume 2000 calories per day, mostly from protien as opposed to 2000 calories per day, mostly from "bad" carbs, you'll notice the difference.

Avoid carbs like sugar, bread, pasta etc...

Most processed foods will cause you to gain weight, and not good weight either.

Sticking to fresh, non-processed foods is your best bet.
 

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
Carbs with a high-glycemic index will make you gain weight and retain that weight.

If you were to consume 2000 calories per day, mostly from protien as opposed to 2000 calories per day, mostly from "bad" carbs, you'll notice the difference.

Avoid carbs like sugar, bread, pasta etc...

Most processed foods will cause you to gain weight, and not good weight either.

Sticking to fresh, non-processed foods is your best bet.
Not totally buddy.

Macronutrients and their timing determines what you will gain or lose the weight from. For instance, if you're eating 4000 calories a day of protein and healthy sources of carbs and fat, you will still gain weight, but most will be from muscle and minimal fat. Meanwhile, if you're eating 4000 calories a day of minimal protein and lots of trans fat and high GI carbs, you will still gain the same amount of weight. But, less of that weight will be muscle and more will be fat.

There's a good article called "A Unified Theory of Nutrition" by a man called Will Brink on this topic. I'd suggest you give it a read. ;)
 

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Carbs with a high-gycemic index will raise your insulin levels which in turn will cause weight (fat) gain as well as weight (fat) retention.

Then there's that whole diabetes thing...

The whole point is to avoid high-GI carbs.
 

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Originally posted by NEWBIE101
Carbs don't make you fat. Calories do.
calories never can and never will make you fat, buff or whatever. most people dont even know what calories are. it is not a nutrient but rather a measure of nutrients. it breaks down as 1g fat=9, 1g carb=4, 1g protien=4. so you see i could consumer 400g of protien no fat and carbs and that would make 4000cal. is that going to make me fat? no protien can not be converted into fat. so measure you nutrients not calories, i gets even more complicated but calories help "simplify" things.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by flava
calories never can and never will make you fat, buff or whatever. most people dont even know what calories are. it is not a nutrient but rather a measure of nutrients. it breaks down as 1g fat=9, 1g carb=4, 1g protien=4. so you see i could consumer 400g of protien no fat and carbs and that would make 4000cal. is that going to make me fat? no protien can not be converted into fat. so measure you nutrients not calories, i gets even more complicated but calories help "simplify" things.
No.

You have things confused my friend.

Excess calories no matter from what macronutrient will automatically be converted into fat. I do know that carbs and protein have 4 cals per gram, fat has 9 per gram, and alcohol has 7.

I'd suggest giving this article a read...I suggested it before.

http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/willbrink10.htm
 

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Originally posted by NEWBIE101
No.

You have things confused my friend.

Excess calories no matter from what macronutrient will automatically be converted into fat. I do know that carbs and protein have 4 cals per gram, fat has 9 per gram, and alcohol has 7.

I'd suggest giving this article a read...I suggested it before.

http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/willbrink10.htm
theres a big diffrence between weight loss and fat loss and that article was refering to weight loss, in which america is blinded by thinking that " hey i can eat all the atkins donughts and hamburgers i want just as long as its low carb!" then they stand on the scale and see a big weight loss diffrence but they still have that ungodly high 30 something %bf and start thinking "hey i must be losing fat" when in fact i could be mucle mass, water, etc. thats why i say measure your macros not the cals.
 

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Originally posted by flava
theres a big diffrence between weight loss and fat loss and that article was refering to weight loss, in which america is blinded by thinking that " hey i can eat all the atkins donughts and hamburgers i want just as long as its low carb!" then they stand on the scale and see a big weight loss diffrence but they still have that ungodly high 30 something %bf and start thinking "hey i must be losing fat" when in fact i could be mucle mass, water, etc. thats why i say measure your macros not the cals.
You should measure both.
 
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