"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Watch the carbs!

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Easy to put on weight I found, yesterday I tipped the scales at 197lbs at 6'3". Was 190lbs like 2 weeks ago.. Sounds good right? Not really... had a geez in the mirror and saw that I'm growing a god damn pot belly!!!:( Due to me eating about 3lbs of potatoes a day I'd say. My tip, avoid carbs in the evening! Otherwise you'll gain weight, except it'll be just be fat.

To you skinny 6'1" 130lbs anorexic freaks out their, don't worry about the carbs, eat 5lbs of potatoes a day and you'll be fat in no time...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Guess what I found out yesterday. I can breathe.

Easy to put on weight....naw really?

I agree with Newbie here. Potatoes = carbs and calories, but if you're eating 3 POUNDS!!! That's a lot of carbs AND calories. If you're not exercising to work it off, then you will gain weight no matter what, unless you sh1t 24/7.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by NEWBIE101
Carbs don't make you fat. Calories do.
Carbs with a high-glycemic index will make you gain weight and retain that weight.

If you were to consume 2000 calories per day, mostly from protien as opposed to 2000 calories per day, mostly from "bad" carbs, you'll notice the difference.

Avoid carbs like sugar, bread, pasta etc...

Most processed foods will cause you to gain weight, and not good weight either.

Sticking to fresh, non-processed foods is your best bet.
 

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
Carbs with a high-glycemic index will make you gain weight and retain that weight.

If you were to consume 2000 calories per day, mostly from protien as opposed to 2000 calories per day, mostly from "bad" carbs, you'll notice the difference.

Avoid carbs like sugar, bread, pasta etc...

Most processed foods will cause you to gain weight, and not good weight either.

Sticking to fresh, non-processed foods is your best bet.
Not totally buddy.

Macronutrients and their timing determines what you will gain or lose the weight from. For instance, if you're eating 4000 calories a day of protein and healthy sources of carbs and fat, you will still gain weight, but most will be from muscle and minimal fat. Meanwhile, if you're eating 4000 calories a day of minimal protein and lots of trans fat and high GI carbs, you will still gain the same amount of weight. But, less of that weight will be muscle and more will be fat.

There's a good article called "A Unified Theory of Nutrition" by a man called Will Brink on this topic. I'd suggest you give it a read. ;)
 

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Carbs with a high-gycemic index will raise your insulin levels which in turn will cause weight (fat) gain as well as weight (fat) retention.

Then there's that whole diabetes thing...

The whole point is to avoid high-GI carbs.
 

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Originally posted by NEWBIE101
Carbs don't make you fat. Calories do.
calories never can and never will make you fat, buff or whatever. most people dont even know what calories are. it is not a nutrient but rather a measure of nutrients. it breaks down as 1g fat=9, 1g carb=4, 1g protien=4. so you see i could consumer 400g of protien no fat and carbs and that would make 4000cal. is that going to make me fat? no protien can not be converted into fat. so measure you nutrients not calories, i gets even more complicated but calories help "simplify" things.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by flava
calories never can and never will make you fat, buff or whatever. most people dont even know what calories are. it is not a nutrient but rather a measure of nutrients. it breaks down as 1g fat=9, 1g carb=4, 1g protien=4. so you see i could consumer 400g of protien no fat and carbs and that would make 4000cal. is that going to make me fat? no protien can not be converted into fat. so measure you nutrients not calories, i gets even more complicated but calories help "simplify" things.
No.

You have things confused my friend.

Excess calories no matter from what macronutrient will automatically be converted into fat. I do know that carbs and protein have 4 cals per gram, fat has 9 per gram, and alcohol has 7.

I'd suggest giving this article a read...I suggested it before.

http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/willbrink10.htm
 

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Originally posted by NEWBIE101
No.

You have things confused my friend.

Excess calories no matter from what macronutrient will automatically be converted into fat. I do know that carbs and protein have 4 cals per gram, fat has 9 per gram, and alcohol has 7.

I'd suggest giving this article a read...I suggested it before.

http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/willbrink10.htm
theres a big diffrence between weight loss and fat loss and that article was refering to weight loss, in which america is blinded by thinking that " hey i can eat all the atkins donughts and hamburgers i want just as long as its low carb!" then they stand on the scale and see a big weight loss diffrence but they still have that ungodly high 30 something %bf and start thinking "hey i must be losing fat" when in fact i could be mucle mass, water, etc. thats why i say measure your macros not the cals.
 

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Originally posted by flava
theres a big diffrence between weight loss and fat loss and that article was refering to weight loss, in which america is blinded by thinking that " hey i can eat all the atkins donughts and hamburgers i want just as long as its low carb!" then they stand on the scale and see a big weight loss diffrence but they still have that ungodly high 30 something %bf and start thinking "hey i must be losing fat" when in fact i could be mucle mass, water, etc. thats why i say measure your macros not the cals.
You should measure both.
 
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