"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wat Is It With Feminine Guys!!!!

Lil Magic

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This girl who i was planning on checking, i just found out she's going with a guy who goes to my school and he's a total frickin metrosexual! I'm pretty sure even he isnt sure about his sexuality. He's a pretty boy but he's so feminine! Its like sissy guys are taking all the women. This girl is so fine and now she looks like she's trip over him
"Oh, i've found my lover, his name is gary"-wat BS! Just shoot me in the frickin head if im gonna be loosing girls to sissies like him!!!WTF WTF WTF!!!:eek: :box: :eek: :box: :eek: :box: :confused: :confused: :confused: :(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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IceCream

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First of all, why are you trippin' out on some other guy trying to get with the girl you want. You should focus more on sarging her and showing her what a true man can do.
 

yungahdubz

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Mate, I'm a total metro sexual, i always make sure I'm looking good whether it be at school or while I'm out, and I'm not considered to be feminine by anyone.
 

oneshot

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I'm the most muscular kid in high school with a good "macho" reputation. They say I'm good lookin, but I don't get all the girls no no no... guess it still all boils down to DJ skills huh? :) I can totally understand just how exactly pissed you are.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nighthawk

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Maybe he doesn't act so feminine when he's pounding her ass.
 

Venusian Artist

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Nighthawk said:
Maybe he doesn't act so feminine when he's pounding her ass.
LOL I can imagine:

Her: Oh yer HARDER
Him: STOP! WAIT! *screams* I broke a nail!

... Don't go making him jealous though :p
 

afrojiggles

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haaaaa..
 

The Shocker

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Nighthawk said:
Maybe he doesn't act so feminine when he's pounding her ass.
HAHAHAHAHAHA
 

ryannath

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High School girls love the girly acting guys I have noticed. It changes a bit once they get older though and turn from a girl to a woman, and then they want a man.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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oneshot

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ryannath said:
High School girls love the girly acting guys I have noticed. It changes a bit once they get older though and turn from a girl to a woman, and then they want a man.
i agree, and im at a great disadvantage here^
I think it depends on what kind of "girly guy" you are. It seems like they prefer skinny guys who play with their hairs for a couple hours each day over the girly guy who promises to throw you a punch but never does, ya know? (yeah, i have a friend like that)
Oh, and no matter HOW much they comment on my intelligence, sense of humor, good looks, and large biceps, the girly guys still win GODDAMNIT...
maybe my 200-student high school is just too small and me, a little picky :)?
 

Holland

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You just need more dominance and personal power.
The interaction should be able to flow as you want it to flow. Your reality must dominate. It's not the girls and its not the girly men, it is you.
Change.
 
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