"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wat Is It With Feminine Guys!!!!

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Lil Magic

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This girl who i was planning on checking, i just found out she's going with a guy who goes to my school and he's a total frickin metrosexual! I'm pretty sure even he isnt sure about his sexuality. He's a pretty boy but he's so feminine! Its like sissy guys are taking all the women. This girl is so fine and now she looks like she's trip over him
"Oh, i've found my lover, his name is gary"-wat BS! Just shoot me in the frickin head if im gonna be loosing girls to sissies like him!!!WTF WTF WTF!!!:eek: :box: :eek: :box: :eek: :box: :confused: :confused: :confused: :(
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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IceCream

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First of all, why are you trippin' out on some other guy trying to get with the girl you want. You should focus more on sarging her and showing her what a true man can do.
 
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yungahdubz

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Mate, I'm a total metro sexual, i always make sure I'm looking good whether it be at school or while I'm out, and I'm not considered to be feminine by anyone.
 
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I'm the most muscular kid in high school with a good "macho" reputation. They say I'm good lookin, but I don't get all the girls no no no... guess it still all boils down to DJ skills huh? :) I can totally understand just how exactly pissed you are.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Maybe he doesn't act so feminine when he's pounding her ass.
 
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Venusian Artist

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Nighthawk said:
Maybe he doesn't act so feminine when he's pounding her ass.
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LOL I can imagine:

Her: Oh yer HARDER
Him: STOP! WAIT! *screams* I broke a nail!

... Don't go making him jealous though :p
 
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haaaaa..
 
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Nighthawk said:
Maybe he doesn't act so feminine when he's pounding her ass.
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HAHAHAHAHAHA
 
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High School girls love the girly acting guys I have noticed. It changes a bit once they get older though and turn from a girl to a woman, and then they want a man.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ryannath said:
High School girls love the girly acting guys I have noticed. It changes a bit once they get older though and turn from a girl to a woman, and then they want a man.
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i agree, and im at a great disadvantage here^
I think it depends on what kind of "girly guy" you are. It seems like they prefer skinny guys who play with their hairs for a couple hours each day over the girly guy who promises to throw you a punch but never does, ya know? (yeah, i have a friend like that)
Oh, and no matter HOW much they comment on my intelligence, sense of humor, good looks, and large biceps, the girly guys still win GODDAMNIT...
maybe my 200-student high school is just too small and me, a little picky :)?
 
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You just need more dominance and personal power.
The interaction should be able to flow as you want it to flow. Your reality must dominate. It's not the girls and its not the girly men, it is you.
Change.
 
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