"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wat Is It With Feminine Guys!!!!

Lil Magic

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This girl who i was planning on checking, i just found out she's going with a guy who goes to my school and he's a total frickin metrosexual! I'm pretty sure even he isnt sure about his sexuality. He's a pretty boy but he's so feminine! Its like sissy guys are taking all the women. This girl is so fine and now she looks like she's trip over him
"Oh, i've found my lover, his name is gary"-wat BS! Just shoot me in the frickin head if im gonna be loosing girls to sissies like him!!!WTF WTF WTF!!!:eek: :box: :eek: :box: :eek: :box: :confused: :confused: :confused: :(
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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IceCream

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First of all, why are you trippin' out on some other guy trying to get with the girl you want. You should focus more on sarging her and showing her what a true man can do.
 

yungahdubz

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Mate, I'm a total metro sexual, i always make sure I'm looking good whether it be at school or while I'm out, and I'm not considered to be feminine by anyone.
 

oneshot

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I'm the most muscular kid in high school with a good "macho" reputation. They say I'm good lookin, but I don't get all the girls no no no... guess it still all boils down to DJ skills huh? :) I can totally understand just how exactly pissed you are.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nighthawk

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Maybe he doesn't act so feminine when he's pounding her ass.
 

Venusian Artist

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Nighthawk said:
Maybe he doesn't act so feminine when he's pounding her ass.
LOL I can imagine:

Her: Oh yer HARDER
Him: STOP! WAIT! *screams* I broke a nail!

... Don't go making him jealous though :p
 

afrojiggles

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haaaaa..
 

The Shocker

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Nighthawk said:
Maybe he doesn't act so feminine when he's pounding her ass.
HAHAHAHAHAHA
 

ryannath

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High School girls love the girly acting guys I have noticed. It changes a bit once they get older though and turn from a girl to a woman, and then they want a man.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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oneshot

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ryannath said:
High School girls love the girly acting guys I have noticed. It changes a bit once they get older though and turn from a girl to a woman, and then they want a man.
i agree, and im at a great disadvantage here^
I think it depends on what kind of "girly guy" you are. It seems like they prefer skinny guys who play with their hairs for a couple hours each day over the girly guy who promises to throw you a punch but never does, ya know? (yeah, i have a friend like that)
Oh, and no matter HOW much they comment on my intelligence, sense of humor, good looks, and large biceps, the girly guys still win GODDAMNIT...
maybe my 200-student high school is just too small and me, a little picky :)?
 

Holland

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You just need more dominance and personal power.
The interaction should be able to flow as you want it to flow. Your reality must dominate. It's not the girls and its not the girly men, it is you.
Change.
 
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