"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wat Is It With Feminine Guys!!!!

Lil Magic

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This girl who i was planning on checking, i just found out she's going with a guy who goes to my school and he's a total frickin metrosexual! I'm pretty sure even he isnt sure about his sexuality. He's a pretty boy but he's so feminine! Its like sissy guys are taking all the women. This girl is so fine and now she looks like she's trip over him
"Oh, i've found my lover, his name is gary"-wat BS! Just shoot me in the frickin head if im gonna be loosing girls to sissies like him!!!WTF WTF WTF!!!:eek: :box: :eek: :box: :eek: :box: :confused: :confused: :confused: :(
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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IceCream

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First of all, why are you trippin' out on some other guy trying to get with the girl you want. You should focus more on sarging her and showing her what a true man can do.
 

yungahdubz

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Mate, I'm a total metro sexual, i always make sure I'm looking good whether it be at school or while I'm out, and I'm not considered to be feminine by anyone.
 

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I'm the most muscular kid in high school with a good "macho" reputation. They say I'm good lookin, but I don't get all the girls no no no... guess it still all boils down to DJ skills huh? :) I can totally understand just how exactly pissed you are.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Nighthawk

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Maybe he doesn't act so feminine when he's pounding her ass.
 

Venusian Artist

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Nighthawk said:
Maybe he doesn't act so feminine when he's pounding her ass.
LOL I can imagine:

Her: Oh yer HARDER
Him: STOP! WAIT! *screams* I broke a nail!

... Don't go making him jealous though :p
 

afrojiggles

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haaaaa..
 

The Shocker

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Nighthawk said:
Maybe he doesn't act so feminine when he's pounding her ass.
HAHAHAHAHAHA
 

ryannath

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High School girls love the girly acting guys I have noticed. It changes a bit once they get older though and turn from a girl to a woman, and then they want a man.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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oneshot

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ryannath said:
High School girls love the girly acting guys I have noticed. It changes a bit once they get older though and turn from a girl to a woman, and then they want a man.
i agree, and im at a great disadvantage here^
I think it depends on what kind of "girly guy" you are. It seems like they prefer skinny guys who play with their hairs for a couple hours each day over the girly guy who promises to throw you a punch but never does, ya know? (yeah, i have a friend like that)
Oh, and no matter HOW much they comment on my intelligence, sense of humor, good looks, and large biceps, the girly guys still win GODDAMNIT...
maybe my 200-student high school is just too small and me, a little picky :)?
 

Holland

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You just need more dominance and personal power.
The interaction should be able to flow as you want it to flow. Your reality must dominate. It's not the girls and its not the girly men, it is you.
Change.
 
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