"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wat if a girl starts to pull some dj?

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i know im young, but i need you guys w/ some wisdom to help me with this, it may seem like a simple question but i cant find the answer and i get confronted with this alot, what do you do when a girl starts to dj you? it doesnt work to dj at the same time, or at least how its normally done(well as best as i can do it), how do you handle this and come off as the dj you are and not like half afc?
 

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NewMan

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You constantly remain the DJ.

If she plays these silly games - so what?

You remain the DJ - and she will either get on board or not.

The strongest will survive and you must remain unbending.

Her a## will whip into shape if you've got your sh#t down.

If not - remember these plenty more girls out there.
 

TooColdUlrick

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chicks are lame at being DJ's. it's not in their nature. don't confuse DJ tendencies with a DJ strategy on her part.

anyway, you just need to have better game. you MUST because you are the man and you lead the relationship.
 
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