"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wat if a girl starts to pull some dj?

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i know im young, but i need you guys w/ some wisdom to help me with this, it may seem like a simple question but i cant find the answer and i get confronted with this alot, what do you do when a girl starts to dj you? it doesnt work to dj at the same time, or at least how its normally done(well as best as i can do it), how do you handle this and come off as the dj you are and not like half afc?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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NewMan

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You constantly remain the DJ.

If she plays these silly games - so what?

You remain the DJ - and she will either get on board or not.

The strongest will survive and you must remain unbending.

Her a## will whip into shape if you've got your sh#t down.

If not - remember these plenty more girls out there.
 

TooColdUlrick

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chicks are lame at being DJ's. it's not in their nature. don't confuse DJ tendencies with a DJ strategy on her part.

anyway, you just need to have better game. you MUST because you are the man and you lead the relationship.
 
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